
We are so glad you are interested in strengthening marriages and investing in something that truly matters.
We are Alex and Kira Mills. We love each other deeply, but we also want to be honest: marriage takes work. No marriage is perfect, and a strong marriage is not a marriage without challenges. A healthy marriage is built by two people who are willing to face those challenges together, keep growing, and continue working toward something better.
For more than 23 years, we have been learning how to build a stronger marriage with the help of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. We have learned from healthy marriages around us, studied why marriages sometimes struggle, and experienced firsthand the importance of communication, commitment, grace, and forgiveness.
We are not a perfect couple, and we would never claim to have all the answers. What we can say is that we love Jesus, we love each other, we love the church, and we are committed to the lifelong work of building a healthy marriage.
That commitment led us to create To Have and To Hold Marriage Workshops. Through biblical teaching, honest conversations, practical guidance, and plenty of laughter, we help couples reconnect, communicate more effectively, and strengthen their commitment to one another.
We believe marriage can be joyful, meaningful, and deeply rewarding, even through stress, changing seasons, and the pressures of everyday life. Our workshops are designed to encourage couples while giving them practical tools they can begin using immediately.
If your church or organization would like to invest in the marriages within your community, we would love to partner with you.
Bring a To Have and To Hold Marriage Workshop to your church. Call or text us today to begin planning your event.
- Cell: (501) 314-9457
- email: alex@northheightscoc.org
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Alex has a B.Min from Harding University, an MBS from Bear Valley Bible Institute, an M.Div from Amridge University, and is currently in the Doctoral program at Harding School of Theology in Searcy, AR. Alex has served the Lord’s church for over 20 years, including ten years as a minister at the North Heights Church of Christ in Batesville, AR, and is a highly effective communicator of God’s Word.
Kira has a BBA from Harding University and an MBA from the University of Central Arkansas. She is a Certified Public Accountant and is currently pursuing her MBS at Bear Valley Bible Institute. Kira has worked for nine years for the State of Arkansas as a Legislative Auditor. She serves the Lord’s church as a highly effective Bible class teacher, works in ladies’ programs, and does whatever else ministry requires.
Alex and Kira have two wonderful Christian children, Rachel and Walter, who are learning to serve the Lord in their own ways, too. Rachel is a Freshman at Harding University studying architecture and design. Walter is a sophomore at Batesville High School Charter

